Baldspot wrote:
I mentioned the pro's of getting a HT (with my hair) to my close family and was met with a glazed look - that's already changed with them just seeing the post op results.
I'm sure you already know this, but honestly don't listen to what other people say regarding ht's. The general public is SO misinformed about ht's, how they work, how far the technology has come, and MPB in general. For example, when discussing my ht w/my sister and brother in law, my brother in law said---"but if your hair didn't grow there (hair line/top of head) before why would it now?"...;;D
Then just this afternoon I hung out w/my sister for the first time since my operation. i took my hat off to show her my head...I *knew*....I just fu$king KNEW what she was going to say, given her personality....first came the shocked, repulsed look on her face----"eeEeeEEeEwWwWWwW!!!!"....then, what I KNEW she was going to say & consequently how pissed I would be---"your hair line is in the SAME place (?)"..._B: "that's it?...I thought it would be down here (gesticulating to the hair line of an 18 year old boy)"...:whatever:...of course, subsequently I dragged her up to my pad and forced her to look at before and after shots of my hair line so that I could appease my own need for verification that the hairline was indeed THAT much improved. >C>::
Anyway, people in general are so misinformed and insensitive when it comes to a topic such as this, she didn't even realize that YES lowering -AND- rounding my hair line even by a centimeter (or whatever it is) is THAT important to me; you would think given the fact that family and friends are aware of how much money, time, and emotion you invest into the operation that they would also be equally aware of how important it is to you. Sorry for the long rant, I guess I'm just trying to say people (outside of the ht world

) really know nothing about it & furthermore people who don't suffer significantly from hair loss can't appreciate what it means and can do for those of us who under go it.
/rant....