I know it takes time and effort for many to post to these forums but it is important and it s the reason why I make a point to take the time and make the effort. One of my favorite authors says it very well in this excerpt:
All experiences can serve as our teachers, provided we learn from the information and invest its value in our own lives. There are those who teach that associations with people who have not done well with their lives and their opportunities should be avoided at all cost for fear that we will learn their poor habits, and as a consequence, repeat their unfortunate mistakes. However, as someone wisely said, Those who do not learn from the mistakes of the past are condemned to repeat them. If we ignore the lessons of the past, from whatever the source, then we may become victims of the process of trial and error. By ignoring the lessons of history, our own trials will become inevitable and our own errors will ultimately destroy us.
It is unfortunate, perhaps, that those who fail do not share their experiences. If we had more opportunity to learn from the negative experiences of others, we might well save ourselves from certain disaster.